Tuesday, May 31, 2011

why we shout when in anger

I saw this story on a church's board and would like to share them with all you guys.. (^_~)

A Hindu saint who was visiting river Ganges, to take bath found a group of family members on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He turned to his disciples smiled and asked.

'Why do people shout in anger shout at each other?'

Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout.'

'But, why should you shout when the other person is just next to you? You can as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner.' asked the saint

Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the other disciples.
Finally the saint explained, .

'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.

What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either nonexistent or very small...'

The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'

He looked at his disciples and said.

'So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant, Do not say words that distance each other more, Or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return. They may end up in divorce courts, for instance.'

anger vs. love ??? hoho!
 For more stories - http://www.spiritual-short-stories.com

Sunday, May 22, 2011

two weeks so-called-holiday !

oh. it's been almost two weeks so- called-holiday-ing! .  most of the time spent at home. becoming a houseNOTwife ( sy pinjam term ini dr Miss Tiara ! ) In short, mostly, I'm feeling bored to death up till the stage that I feel, tidak lama lagi mo expire sda duduk rumah. huhu. 

But, thank God. I survived. hoho ! !

Being boring is considered as my unhappiest moment. Plus, I've lost my digi phone.. huhu.. =(. Mourning for my handphone for almost two days in a row.. I can say.. kalah-kalah orang yg putus cinta o.Frust menonggeng yg teramat. I hope the one who found it, didn't use any of the pictures nor images inside for bad purpose. huhu.

Okay! enough for the unhappy stuffs. Now, the interesting one. I guess . hoho . (^_~)

I've thought of doing a part time job this semester break since the hols is about 4 months. Luckily, I got one. As a part time tutor. hoho! great. though the pay is not that much, but so far, I enjoyed it. yg penting experience ba kan.. neh!

Since I've spent most of my time at home, I have this new interest. I guess !.. playing with my Bobo. Cute one!
family dinner. haha!
My aunt just drop a box  full of story books. These are one of them. I'm a great fan of Enid Blyton. hoho!

Need to prepare for tomorrow - my first day of LI. Hope that everything goes well. Amen.

Till then, have a good day everyone. (^_^)

Monday, May 16, 2011

OT it is!!

I was having dinner with my family members the other night and suddenly met an old friend of mine with his gf in the same restaurant.       ( he was my former classmate)

Yah.. the usual things happen when you met an old friend of yours,.. tanya2  khabar  la kan.. updating each others latest information. hoho~!

And it strikes me right in the heart when he said that, " ala, sayangnya ko bukan farmasi".. oh, but, I got that covered.

It reminds me back of how I used to be so fond + addicted + dreaming of becoming a pharmacist one day. I'd imagined myself being a successful pharmacist but I didn't.

Those days ( when I knew I didn't get a pharmacy course), was the most saddest and frustrated moments of my life. I feel like quitting without thinking what are the upcoming consequences I might face later on. But, I'm extremely grateful for having such a caring and supportive family members as well as my friends around me. Thanks guys! I couldn't make it till now without you all. (^_^)

I am a  future OCCUPATIONAL THERAPIST . ( purposely written in capital letters.hoho!)

Early months in UKM, I admit, I was having trouble in accepting the fact that I got this course. But, God's grace is amazing. Though' it took me months and months to grow love on being an OT, in the end, I'm sooo in it. I now believe that, everything happens for a reason.

What made me change my mind on OT.. OT roles can be seen everywhere. Besides, it deals with various individual, for example like pediatrics          ( children) , psychiatry , geriatric ( elderly people). Plus, when I came to look at my surroundings especially within my family, it is related. They sure need an OT in the family. hoho! *trip perasan jap.lalalala~*

It disappoint me that when people ask me about my course, they seem to have never heard them. 
( OT has been  more than 50 years here in Malaysia - huhu.). Well, I admit I have never heard of it before, but now I do, and I'm in it. 

So, I would like to take this opportunity to market myself.. oopps! not me.. Occupational therapy la.hoho~

Occupational therapy aka Pemulihan Carakerja ( this one you would see if you come to the hospital and most hospital, in which I've gone to clinical attachments, the department is next to Physio department, except for Malacca General Hosp.)

Main domains of concern in OT are Activity of  Daily Living (ADL), Work and Leisure - optimizing independence, productivity and quality of life in one's individual.

Once diagnosed or having impairments that may limit a client's ability to perform independently in those domains, OT will perform an assessment to see much more detail on client's performance and intervention planning.

Besides that, OT will also perform an assessment  on the client's surroundings such as his home, work place or school to enable client to be independent despite of the impairment or disability they have. OT may suggest a home modification or the use of adaptive and assisstive devices.

Here comes the intervention part. In OT, intervention is implemented in a purposeful activity. Sure , you guys are a bit blur what do I mean by purposeful activity. Okay! a simple example. A client with fracture on his wrist. After a period of immobilization, the wrist need to be strengthen as its previous condition. Besides of using a wrist exerciser/ theraputty, client can also do the same by doing house chores such as washing dishes. The purposeful activity here is the washing dishes. Oh!.I hope that you guys understand.hehe~

That's just  the surface info on what OT is. If you need to know more, please do so - google. hoho!

And to the OT's who read this and feel that something is not right or not enough with the information, do comment and correct me. I'm still in the process of learning.

I'm proud to be an OT!  Let OT rules the world! yeah~

Sunday, May 15, 2011

cinta hati baru.hoho!

Buli la cakap, saya ni baru seja balik di sini Sabah. First of all, I am grateful for having my presence , here back at home after few months stuck in Peninsular. As I've mentioned in my previous entri, I wanted to do some stuffs once I get back home.

I get easily worried on silly and simple things.. and to make it worse, it would take me days and days , thinking about the solutions. haish. then now, I regret my being so-worried-over- simple-things. because of it, I didn't manage to do one of the things I needed to. damn frustrated and disappointed.

Now that I look at it, I do wish that Doraemon do exist and available. My fb status :

cinta hati baru saya : doraemon. dia ada mesin masa, pintu suka hati sama poket ajaib.

mesin masa - supaya buli balik pigi zaman kanak-kanak ribena. tidak payah mo susa-susa hati over silly and simple things. yang penting main and makan seja. besides, saya mo balik pigi semua moment yang berkenaan la konon, fix things right. saya mo pigi future juga, macam c Hiro di sana Heroes tu. supaya saya buli nampak la apa buli jadi kunun nanti.

pintu suka hati - supaya buli pigi mana- mana seja saya mo pigi. balik sabah time homesick, pigi melancong saaaanaaaa oversea, dan yang sewaktu dengannya.

poket ajaib - paling penipu la kamu kalau tidak pernah nampak di tv or baca komik doraemon. poket ajaib dia macam-macam ada. hoho!

cinta hati baru saya.hoho.

Sunday, May 8, 2011

afternoon with "klik-klik"

Sessions with pidil. thx pidil!
"klik-klik" there.. "klik-klik" here.. that is the stuffs that me and my friends have been doing for two days in a row.. location : Tasik Titiwangsa, Kuala Lumpur.

*once done with the "klik-klik" thing, I now realize the beauty of Tasik Titiwangsa. haha!* 

These "klik-klik" thing a.k.a mini photo shoots is divided to 2 phase.

First phase, with my dear coursemates - Aa ( as the main camera girl!^^),  Zila and Lin. Second phase, with Pidil.

this is me. I've combined it all in one piece.

zila - winnie- aa-lin

Friday, May 6, 2011

I ♥♥♥ mami!

Month of May! Soon will be a Mother's Day and my Mami's birthday. But, poor me, I won't be home celebrating this day with my mami.. except for the birthday.. =(

Nevertheless, thanks to Mr . Technology. No matter how far you may be, phone calls, video calls, web cam and etc can connect you with your loved ones. So, be sure to call your mum on this wonderful day ya!

So, where to start??

Mami saya chubby2 orangnya. haha! in fact, I think she's cute . hehe. .     ( ^_~)

Oh ya.! First of all, I want to thank my mami for everything. I know , words are far beyond enough to express how grateful I am of having you, but mami, THANK YOU!. 

While all the other baby in the world was delivered normally, I myself  was Cesarean. I'm sure you know what Cesarean delivery is right??.. Besides being delivered Cesarean, I was born two weeks earlier than expected  ( but I forgot to ask my mami whether I'm considered as premature or not.haha!)

My mami is  a great and amazing person. I admired her courage and strength and I wish that someday, I have that gift within me. When life offers so many obstacles and circumstances, she faces them calmly.

She is a good listener. She listens to every words I say 'though some of them not make sense at all. She supports me in everything I do.

'Though she's not always there for me, I mean physically since I'm stuck here in Peninsular, but I know I can count on her anytime I want.

The best part is that, my mami is soo very sporting. I can share almost everything with her even the love-life matters. ( since most daughters are a bit shy when it comes to this, but for me, is ok! hehe~) . She'll listen to it and I just love to hear when she relates my story to her story. ( dia pun automatically cerita la kisah2 time zaman kegemilangan dia.haha! and oh ya, she also told me how she met my father.lalalala~)

There was one time, it  was a day before I'm leaving for KL . My family held a small gathering, more like a prayer for me before I go back to KL . She insist of  having my boyfriend ( ketika masi berboipren la..haha!) coming to the house  for the prayers. Saya pula yang jadi malu kan.haha!

And these days, since I'm so single and available, I prefer the term independent and available actually, haha!, she always tease me., like " ih.. kesian juga anak saya ni, xda orang mau"... "ko ni btul2 xda bf ka smpi skrg?".. and a lot more la.. haha~ funny.. lalalalalala~

Okay, enough with that. 

Mami, Sorry for everything. My words, actions or behavior may have hurt you in many ways that I, myself is unaware of it. Sorry.

*Dear Lord, I pray for your abundant blessings to all the mothers in the world, especially my mother. Grant them the best health ever, courage and strength in handling their daily lives as the wife to their husband and a mother to their children.Amen *

Monday, May 2, 2011

-heart of joys-

days has been perfectly amazing and wonderful. yeay! . lots of precious moments captured in pictures and I just soooo in love with the pictures.

let me put them in an easy way ; events are arranged according to sequence.

1) Pesona Retro & Tradisional, Malam Seribu Bintang : 30/04/2011

Mentioned above is the theme of the night. Main mission on that night was to eat as much as I can- haha!        ( buffet ma) , hope the performance goes well and of course, to enjoy.!!.. well, I did enjoy eating and ya, the performance goes well. The unexpected things happen : I was choosen  as the Queen of the night - OMG! and then secondly, I won the lucky draw which I rarely did. But, anyway I'm totally grateful - guess luck was on my side that night. haha!

some of the pictures~!

2) Weekend with the Joyahs' aka Sumandakz : 01/05 - 02/05/2011

Last seen - somewhere around March / April 2007, and now almost 4 years la - Neavinee! one of the sumandakz  that I haven't seen for the longest time. Now that she's in Malaysia ( Melaka) , so it is much easier to gather around la. As usual, the main venue for sumandakz  gathering  is at Perdana, Shah Alam. This time, only the five of us - Aneys, Biyuk, Neavy , Teri and me. Although it was only the five of us, the joyah session was still awesome! weehuuu~. I did have a great time with them, with all the stories, laughter and of course, all in one is the kejoyahan altogether. *sumandakz rock!*


3) Movie session - Thor 3D : 02/05/2011

Firstly, thanks to Pidil. If it was not because of her, I wouldn't be watching this movie today. haha!. The movie was great especially when watching them in 3D. But then, only one thing la I so dislike, the ending. huhu~. Perhaps, there will be Thor 2. hmm. hope so.